to view everyone as equal is good, but you can’t ignore that there is inherent differences

So a big topic that a couple of friends and I have had recently that I have been wanting to write down and share. I’m only going to be brief about this and hopefully write more at a later point. Growing up in my small-ish town I never really questioned much of how I got treated even though I am Asian and was around a lot of white people. It wasn’t until I did some moving around the US and lived in areas that shifted that thought. There’s this whole thing about equality and treating people like they’re the same … Continue reading to view everyone as equal is good, but you can’t ignore that there is inherent differences

24 Things I Learned This Year Because It’s A Wonderful Life

Earlier this week while at work I was printing stuff and I came across a job to print newspaper props for a local community theater. Once I paid attention I realized they were doing the play It’s A Wonderful Life. The year is coming to an end and this movie was a reminder to reflect and think about my blessings, growth, and how significant I really am. Because I turned 24 this year, here are 24 things I learned because it really is a Wonderful Life. 1. I am loved. It doesn’t always feel like it. It doesn’t always look … Continue reading 24 Things I Learned This Year Because It’s A Wonderful Life

Just because you’re married doesn’t mean you know everything about relationships. 

Man, lately I’ve been hearing more and more people tell me that marriage is a wait worth while (which I understand) but to just enjoy being with each other right now because it happens when it will happen all because … Continue reading Just because you’re married doesn’t mean you know everything about relationships. 

I’ve questioned posting this for over 2 months now…I figure it might be okay 

No one ever tells you what it’s really like to date someone who was previously married. No one tells you that you’ll end up mindfucking yourself and potentially psych yourself into making mistakes you had planned on never making. No … Continue reading I’ve questioned posting this for over 2 months now…I figure it might be okay